The Woman behind the Veil…


This painting, The Woman behind the Veil,  is one of my favourites. Many Muslims and others, aren’t always sure whether the “veil” refers to the face covering  or the head covering. In this painting it is both. The ink and bleach rendition is inspired by the controversy that the veil has caused in the world of late. In France the veil is banned in public and in Spain there is a debate about  whether to follow suit. This debate extends from government caucus groups to university classrooms but, interestingly enough, does not include women who veil…what value could they possibly add to the discussion?

But the painting is titled The Woman behind the Veil. Despite the  intrigue, the mystique and the controversy created by the veil, it’s the woman that I want to focus on.

So often, veiled women are boxed by men and other women in so many different ways. Generally she is seen as oppressed,  inhibited, restricted…probably by her father or husband. To many, she is not seen as very intelligent, but she can probably cook well. She must be very conservative and unimaginative – why else does she resist fashion trends? And she’s probably subservient, voiceless and weak…or she would “free”  herself, surely.  You don’t see her strutting her stuff on the beach or the catwalk so she can’t have great self esteem. For Muslim women who don’t wear the veil, she is often regarded as holier-than-thou, righteous.

Although this is changing very slowly, as we enjoy an age of televised veiled women marching for freedom in Palestine, protesting in Tahrir Square and speaking from university podiums, I still find that there are many people who avoid eye-contact with veiled women in the streets – especially those dressed in black- in the same way that they avoid really seeing disabled people, beggars and the homeless. As if there is something alien about them. What is it about them that begs invisibility?

What is it we don’t want to see?

And if we got beyond our tainted glasses, gave up our assumptions and got curious, what would we ask The Woman behind the Veil? It’s her I’m interested in. Aren’t you?

What does she do? What is she passionate about? What makes her laugh? What does her heart yearn for? Where has she travelled? What does she dream of? What cause does she fiercely champion? Who does she vote for? What are her fears? Who are her friends? Why does she wear the veil? There’s so much to be curious about…And what of the world she’s looking out at?  How does she see it?

At a recent conference I attended, Fadil Soloman, a well known interfaith facilitator, posed these questions in a different way through a visual comparison.

            

What if we looked at veiled Muslim women as we look at the most honoured of  women in Christianity…would that make a difference? Would we see them as women who love God, women who serve their communities, women who change the world?

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7 Responses

  1. Wow. With each new post , I’m inspired to just ‘Do Something’. I’m particularly draw to this one , as a woman behind the veil ,myself, it gave me some perspective.I don’t believe I’d realised it , but up until now , I’d been quite myopic in my view of others. I’d been so focussed on the light I wanted to be seen in , I hadn’t thought of the light I shon on those around me. This blog has been a brilliant means of stimulation. Thank you , I will continue to desire to be discovered , without being uncovered.

    • Thank you, Mahjooba. I like that you’ve commented with that name since it literally translates to “veiled one” from Arabic. I’m glad that you got a fresh perspective from this post.

  2. You make a really good point that we need to view veiled women differently than we currently do, and perhaps seeing them as we see Mother Theresa and the likes, might be a good starting point.

    I also wanted to add that the choice of whether a woman chooses to wear a veil or not should be a choice! We shouldn’t be forcing women to unveil anymore than we should be forcing women to wear a veil….That’s the whole point of free choice and women’s rights! It seems that while before, society was forcing women to cover up, now there seems to be a trend towards showcasing it all…(However, I do realize that there are some places where unfortunately women have to wear the veil, even if they don’t want too,and to me that still goes against free choice!)

    Great post!

    • Thanks, for your comment. I completely agree that exercising choice is a basic human right. Moreover, it is what distinguishes us from other creatures. I do believe though, that as people, we are generally not present to the choices we make every minute of every day…not only in our overt actions but in reacting to someone, the words we use, the emotions we wallow in, the news and views we watch, the trends we follow, the social and political norms we adopt, the religions we are born into…unquestioning we do not, generally, exercise our choice. Sooner or later we find ourselves in a situation unable to track the choices that led us there. Maybe when we become more conscious of this, we will be more mindful of forcing our choices on others…

  3. Beautiful painting. I also am a niqabi, one who wears the face veil, and it’s refreshing to see someone who, rather than throwing labels around and bellyaching about how we need to be liberated, recognizes that there is a real person behind the veil, and is interested in knowing that person. I keep a blog for this very purpose, to help shed light on ‘life behind the veil’, and why a woman would choose this beautiful form of expression. Thanks again 🙂

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